What should I not tell a marriage counselor? Is online marriage counseling effective?

The "services" page of my website expresses my way of organizing the weddings of my spouses quite well: I like to be there from the beginning and build everything from the foundations, which is why for some years now I have dedicated myself only to full service and I no longer offer partial services such as location research alone (which I do only for the spouses with whom I will later collaborate) or the coordination of the day of the event.

What should I not tell a marriage counselor Is online marriage counseling effective

This blog was born many years ago with the mission of helping as many couples as possible to have a perfect wedding because, as I often say “ everyone deserves a dream wedding ” (if you didn't really think so, you wouldn't give dozens of “ I bridegroom! And now'”).

I thought a lot about how to combine all these needs and I finally focused on what I like to do and what I can do for you. I'll help you! I have planned different types of consultancy dedicated to the planning and design of your big day, and now I present them to you.

Just between us – 1:2 advice for future spouses

This consultancy is dedicated to couples who cannot decide how to move in the initial phase of the preparations. Do it yourself? Relying on a wedding planner? What to prioritize? Which budget to invest in? What suppliers do they need?

There are many doubts that may emerge at the beginning of the organization, with this personalized consultancy I can help you define the organizational steps and have a detailed picture of the actions to be taken.

Balance – The check-up for your event

As the big day approaches, it's important to check that everything is in balance: through this mini-service, we will review together the details, timing, surprises, and use of the space in the location.

Review – Let's look at your wedding with new eyes

It's fun to choose styles, colors, and materials for your wedding, but what if they don't work? With this mini-service, we will be able to review your project, verify that everything is harmonious and make the changes that will make it extraordinary.

Style Guide – The template for your wedding

I say every day that a mood board is not enough to plan and organize a wedding, it takes more! I have therefore prepared for you the style guide ready to be delivered to your suppliers. You can buy it online at a small price and immediately start personalizing it with your data, images, and details. Immediately after the purchase, you will receive by mail the link to access and edit the template and the video tutorial in which I show you how to use it.

Concept – The project for your wedding

The concept is more than a consultancy, it's my creativity at your service! If you want to organize your wedding independently but you would like to have a professional project... I'll take care of it! After a virtual meeting and some images that I'll ask you to send me, I'll prepare a style project for you complete with palettes, mood boards, the definition of thematic details, ideas for setting up the most important corners, and mock-ups. Within two weeks you will have a project just like the one I make for my newlyweds, but it will all be yours.

What should I not tell a marriage counselor?

It is important, to be honest with a marriage counselor and to share any information that may be relevant to your relationship and your goals for therapy. However, there may be some things that you feel uncomfortable sharing or that you believe may be inappropriate to disclose to a third party. It is okay to have boundaries and to hold back on sharing certain information if you feel that it is not necessary or if it is too personal. 

It is also important to remember that what you share with a marriage counselor is usually kept confidential, but there are some exceptions to this rule. For example, if you disclose that you are in danger of hurting yourself or someone else, the counselor may have a legal obligation to report this to the appropriate authorities in order to protect your safety.

It is also important to remember that a marriage counselor is not there to judge you or your spouse, but rather to help you both understand and address any difficulties that may be currently struggling in your relationship. They are there to provide a safe and supportive environment for you to discuss your concerns and work towards improving your relationship. It may be helpful to discuss any concerns you have about what you should or should not share with your counselor before beginning therapy.

Is online marriage counseling effective?

Online marriage counseling can be an effective way to receive therapy and address issues in a relationship. Many people find it convenient and more accessible than in-person counseling, as it allows them to participate from the comfort of their own homes and at a time that is convenient for them.

There are several factors that can contribute to the effectiveness of online marriage counseling. One important factor is the qualifications and experience of the counselor. It is important to choose a therapist who is licensed and trained to provide online therapy and has experience working with couples.

The quality of the therapeutic relationship between the counselor and the couple is also important. It is important to feel comfortable and trust the therapist in order for therapy to be effective. In online counseling, it may be more difficult to establish a strong therapeutic relationship, but with good communication and a commitment to the process, it is still possible to make progress in therapy.

It is also important for couples to be proactive in their therapy and to be willing to engage in the therapeutic process. This may include setting goals for therapy, being open and honest about their feelings and concerns, and completing any assignments or exercises that the therapist assigns.

Overall, the effectiveness of online marriage counseling depends on a variety of factors, including the qualifications and experience of the therapist, the quality of the therapeutic relationship, and the willingness of the couple to engage in the therapeutic process.


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